I wonder??? Hmmm?? ( n.o topic 4)

Why are some guys mean to the girl they like or Vise versa? Just Replace he with the she

1. He likes the girl too much ( What I mean is obsessed) but he doesn't want other people to know about it or they will judge him for liking the girl TOO much. So they go into defence mode.
2. The more and more the guy likes the girl they get meaner and meaner.
3. They act like that sometimes because they don't want too much of attention towards them.
4. For Some reason, it says he is gay?
5.  It's a habit that has been with them for their whole life.
6. The men who are most successful with this tactic are the guys who have the most women falling over themselves to be with him.
7. When the boy gets older he realizes that he is being mean so at some stage of his life he stops doing that.

Here's the link I got it fromWhy?? I just sum up the sentences.